Friday, August 31, 2018

8-31-2018

Mary’s Minute

Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.”
                                                    ~ Mother Teresa

My message for this week is pretty simple.  It can be summed up in just one word – smile.  A smile is so simple, yet it sends a message to others that we care, and it has personal healing powers for the smiler.

Smiling to spread love like Mother Teresa describes is great, but it is also important to smile for yourself.  As silly as it may sound, smile in front of the mirror. When you wake up each morning, smile.  When you are sad, mad, or lonely, force yourself to physically smile.  When you are ready to cry, smile.  Before you write out a strong email, smile.  When you just have that overall sad feeling, smile.  When you feel overwhelmed, smile.

I talk about how being happy is a choice, but the truth is sometimes no matter how hard we try, we cannot simply will ourselves to be happy.  Smiling is a concrete thing that we can do to help.

I have tried it, and at first it feels awkwardly painful and fake, but as the smile spreads from your mouth to your eyes there is a physical release of tension.  Smiling will not solve all of your troubles, and it may not even totally shift your mood.  I promise you that it will help, even if it is just a little bit. 

                                                      Enjoy your long weekend
                                                                      and smile!

                                                                                             Mary

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