Thursday, October 16, 2014

10-17-2014



Mary’s Minute

"The pessimist complains about the wind.  The optimist expects it to change.  The leader adjusts the sail."                                                                                           - John Maxwell

 

There are so many things in life that are out of our control.  This quote is offered as a metaphor, but it also provides an example of something that is out of our control - the wind/weather.  We can complain, we can expect, or we can try to use each situation to our advantage.  When something negative happens to us, complaining is an option, but one that will not change the situation or make us better.  We can accept or expect as an optimist would do, or we can be the courageous leader who sees every experience as an opportunity to move us forward.  Being an optimist makes life more enjoyable for us and the people around us, but this quote takes it a step further.  It isn’t always enough to see the best, but we also need to act in a positive way.  Even a negative experience can be positive if we use it as an opportunity for growth.  Life is full of challenges that cannot be avoided.  We are not given the choice of what will be tossed in our path.  We are, fortunately, equipped with the ability to choose how we react.  We can be pessimists, optimists, or leaders.  We can complain, accept, or adjust the sails in order to make the most of every situation.  We are Commodores, so I think we know how to adjust the sails!  Sail on!

                                                                                           Have a great week!

                                                                                                       Mary

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