Friday, October 25, 2019

10-25-2019


Mary’s Minute

“Promise me you will not spend so much time treading water and trying to keep your head above the waves that you forget, truly forget, how much you have always loved to swim.” 
                                                                              —Tyler Knott Gregson

In life we are either truly living or we are just getting by.  When the sea of life hands us stormy waves, we are likely to just tread water.  In those moments we can forget the true joy of living – how much we love to swim!

In education we talk about remembering our why.  We are challenged to think about what motivated us to enter this profession in the beginning and what drives us to go on when times are tough.   Life can be challenging, and the life of an educator today can be very tumultuous.  Most teachers can conjure a positive image of helping children that propelled them into this profession.  Yet, when faced with the demands of mandates and students with challenges, that original why can be swept away and replaced with the need to simply get by.  It is in these times most of all that we need to remember how much we love to swim.  The joy of helping children -- the knowledge that you are making a difference -- needs to be more powerful than the urge to tread water.  

I know that sometimes we feel like all we can do is keep our head above water, but please, please, please never forget how much you love to swim!

Have a great week!
                                                                                                              Mary

Friday, October 11, 2019

10-11-2019


Mary’s Minute


“Perfection has to do with the end product, but excellence has to do with the process.”
                                                                         ~ Jerry Moran

The other day I heard a musician talking about recording a live album. I don’t even remember who it was, but I remember the message.  He was saying that in today’s world we have the capacity to edit out all of the imperfections to make even a live show “perfect” but to do so takes away the joy that comes with the process.  

Technology gives us the chance for many do-overs with the ability to edit and filter, but I think part of the danger with that is that we grow to expect perfection – with our eye only on the end product.  In doing so, our perception of reality can be warped and the joy of the process stripped away. When we focus on excellence we can focus on the process, and not as critical of ourselves. We can see that the doing is as important as the end, and joy is a natural by-product.

Education is tough, and it is even tougher when we expect perfection.  Be kind to yourself. Remember that excellence comes with the process.
                                                               
  Have a great break!
                                                                              Mary



Friday, October 4, 2019

10-4-2019

Mary’s Minute
“When you forgive, you in no way change the past - but you sure do change the future."                                       
                                                                                 ~ Bernard Meltzer

We all know there is no way to change the past.  We can't unsay things or erase evil that has occurred in the past.  Although the past is behind us, we as individuals and as a society do have the power to change the future.  It is a simple notion, but world peace begins with forgiveness and kindness. 

I saw a powerful example of this on the national news.  The 18 year old brother of a victim who was killed expressed forgiveness and then asked the judge if he could hug the killer of his brother.  It is tough to imagine what we would do in a situation like this, but to see forgiveness at work was powerful for me.  Bitterness and hate will not bring back the victim, but forgiveness can provide healing for the victim’s family and a road to a better future for the convicted.  

Kindness and forgiveness can start a chain reaction that cuts across cultures, backgrounds, and even horrible acts, bringing us closer to peace.  It starts one person at a time. I refuse to give up on humans.  We have the capacity to spread love that can change the future!

                        Have a great week!
                                         Mary